The incessant question that plagues the minds of many when embarking on new, uncharted endeavors is one that I’ve grown accustomed to yet find increasingly grating. As a creative, a creator, an artist, or a risk-taker, do we truly desire to hear that ick inquiry? The response that often echoes in my mind is blunt. In the immortal words of my friend LaLa “Bitch, are you paying my bills?” The answer resonates deep within every artist’s soul.
The only individuals who genuinely merit posing such a question are those who financially support or significantly contribute to one’s life. For the rest, it’s best left unasked. As an artist, the last thing you need is added fear to accompany the already daunting challenges of your pursuits. When stepping into entrepreneurial realms, the predominant question isn’t whether you’re finding success in the conventional sense; instead, it revolves around how to sustain oneself financially, affording life’s necessities, and perhaps indulgences like a vacation or an extra cocktail.
While those residing within the safety of traditional employment may find it easier to navigate life, for entrepreneurs and risk-takers, the primary concern is always financial viability. Every action, every risk taken, is underpinned by the desire to make a living. Networking becomes not just about connections but also about aligning with individuals who share a similar hunger for success and are business-minded and driven by the pursuit of prosperity.
A word of advice for the nine-to-fivers, the privileged: refrain from asking artists, free thinkers, entrepreneurs, and risk-takers whether their endeavors are financially fruitful. Instead, show genuine concern. Ask about their well-being, offer support, lend an empathetic ear, or buy a drink. The underlying stress of financial survival is ever-present, and sometimes, these individuals seek solace from it all, only to be confronted yet again with inquiries about their monetary gains.
If you genuinely wish to support a creative friend or family member, demonstrate it through actions: share their work, engage with their content, and spread the word about their pursuits. Surround yourself with a community that uplifts, motivates, and inspires. Toxicity and negativity have no place in the circle of support.
Recently, a friend’s simple act of sharing my artwork led to unforeseen opportunities and even caught the attention of talent agencies. Such acts of support can catalyze immense growth and success. However, not everyone will be forthcoming with their support. Some may harbor envy or selfishness, but even a kind word or a compliment can go a long way.
“Do you make any money from …?” It’s a query that can stir emotions, from pride to frustration. As artists or creators diving into new ventures, we often tread a less traveled path where financial stability isn’t guaranteed. Yet, we’re driven by something more profound than just the promise of a paycheck. We’re fueled by passion, the need to express ourselves, and the pursuit of something meaningful. So, when someone asks about our financial success, it’s essential to consider their intentions. Are they genuinely curious, or are they just being nosy? If it’s the former, sharing our journey can be a way to connect and inspire. But if it feels invasive or judgmental, setting boundaries is perfectly okay. After all, our worth as artists isn’t solely determined by our bank balance. So, whether you share the ups and downs of your financial journey or deflect with a smile, remember: your art is valuable, no matter what the bottom line says.
In a world full of skeptics and naysayers, be the one who believes. Be the one who supports. Be the one who inspires. And together, let’s redefine success on our terms.
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